Hurtful words in marriage

"Language is divine. Some may know this but do not realize its implications in their daily family life. Love at home starts with a loving language. This need is so important that, without loving words, some become mentally unbalanced, others emotionally disturbed, and some may even die. No society can survive after its family life has deteriorated, and this deterioration has always started with one word. [Didier, "Language," 26]

And it is always a hurtful word.

Studies of couples who stay married for 30 or more years show that they are kind to each other. Their criticisms, when they come, are couched as exceptions in a nest of praise and love. I did a Google search on the term lasting marriage. The results? There were over a quarter of a million entries. I did not tally all the suggestions. I did page through the first 50 or so. The overriding theme was to be loving, resolve conflict, and be respectful of each other.

Elder Lynn G. Robbins wrote of Satan's efforts to destroy families:

He damages and often destroys families within the walls of their own homes. His strategy is to stir up anger between family members. Satan is the "father of contention, and he stirreth up the hearts of men to contend with anger, one with another" (3 Ne. 11:29; emphasis added). The verb stir sounds like a recipe for disaster: Put tempers on medium heat, stir in a few choice words, and bring to a boil; continue stirring until thick; cool off; let feelings chill for several days; serve cold; lots of leftovers." ["Agency and Anger," Ensign, May 1998, 80; emphasis in original]

-Words of Hate, Words of Love
CONSTANCE K. LUNDBERG

What Heaven Sees in You...

Video Message

This video makes me cry every time. Such a simple message, but so powerful. It always brings me to think Why don't I do acts of kindness like that more often? The things that may require very little from us, can be valued so highly to others..

...let's just remember to not just think it but DO it.

CREATE

I was telling my mom just a few weeks ago that I am always thinking about creating something. Even when I have no ideas, I always have the desire to make something.. anything. It's very fulfilling. Then I ran across this video and loved it. I love that our church encourages us to use and cultivate talents to make this world a more beautiful place. Every one of you contribute to it... keep it up.

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