Sunday, February 22, 2009

Growth—A Process for Two


“Spiritual growth comes by solving problems together—not by running from them. Today’s inordinate emphasis on individualism brings egotism and separation. Two individuals becoming ‘one flesh’ is still the Lord’s standard. (See Gen. 2:24.)

“The secret of a happy marriage is to serve God and each other. The goal of marriage is unity and oneness, as well as self-development. Paradoxically, the more we serve one another, the greater is our spiritual and emotional growth.”
President Ezra Taft Benson (1899–1994),
“Salvation—a Family Affair,” Ensign, July 1992, 4.

Thursday, February 19, 2009

Service Offer

On most days (M - F) I am available, along with my 3 kids, to come sit with with your kids between 2 and 6 (give or take a half hour) so that you can go to appoinments, meetings, errands, shopping, visiting teaching, etc. I prefer to schedule in advance, but much of the time I can be spontaneous and help in a pinch.

This is because of my husband's graveyard shift and how it sometimes helps to get my kids out of the house in the afternoons when he's sleeping. But my intention is NOT that this is a service "for me". I've just found that having him here so much I haven't BEEN SERVING as much as I'd like to, because I can't babysit, etc. in my own home for now. So if this can help anyone at all...

Call me to plan ahead: Evelyn Veylupek (G4) 362-8478

(Isn't this so nice?? Thank you for the offer Evelyn!)

Saturday, February 7, 2009

Visiting Teaching

Visiting teaching is much more than a visit or sharing a thought with a sister. It is how we connect with one another. We share hearts and souls and extend charity, which is "the highest, noblest, strongest kind of love" (Bible Dictionary, "Charity," 632). Visiting teaching brings the love of the Lord to every home and to every sister. It is a sacred trust we have been given.

Why do sisters do visiting teaching? Mosiah describes it this way: "To bear one another's burdens, . . . to mourn with those that mourn; yea, and comfort those that stand in need of comfort" (Mosiah 18:8–9).

Visiting teaching is the heart and soul of Relief Society. The purposes of visiting teaching are to build caring relationships with each sister and to offer support, comfort, and friendship. In visiting teaching, both the giver and the receiver are blessed and strengthened in their Church activity by their caring concern for one another.

This caring concern is described in Moroni 6:4: "And after they had been received unto baptism, . . . they were numbered among the people of the church of Christ; and their names were taken, that they might be remembered and nourished by the good word of God, to keep them in the right way."

To be named and numbered has special significance for those in need. Elder Henry B. Eyring describes it beautifully:

"You are called to represent the Savior. Your voice to testify becomes the same as His voice, your hands to lift the same as His hands. . . . Your calling is to bless lives. That will be true even in the most ordinary tasks you are assigned. . . . You see, there are no small callings to represent the Lord" ("Rise to Your Call," Ensign, Nov. 2002, 76).

(copied from the church website: http://www.lds.org/pa/display/0,17884,4691-1,00.html)



We have made all changes for February Visiting Teaching and if anyone has questions they can email me (jessica.haworth@gmail.com).
-- Jessica S Haworth


*Thanks Jessica, for your contribution and reminders to keep us going!